I am a Certified and Licensed

Authentic Tantra® Practitioner. 


(Certified by the Institute of Authentic Tantra in 2021)

Authentic Tantra® is a trauma-informed holistic healing modality designed to awaken, heal and integrate body, mind, spirit, and sex. The methods are rooted in the Tibetan Five Elements as taught in the Shangpa Kagyu Lineage of Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, and are designed to catalyze profound healing and transformation in every area of life! These teachings have been passed down from teacher to student as part of an oral tradition dating back over 1,200 years, and were transmitted to our Lama (Lama Tashi Dundrup) by Kalu Rinpoche (1905 – May 10, 1989) over 40 years ago. In addition to being lineage-based, the Institute of Authentic Tantra Education is also the first and only government accredited professional training institute for tantra!
Marlee works with individuals and couples in person in Rochester, NY and virtually over Zoom.
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  • Explore your sexuality and pleasure as a sacred and spiritual practice?

  • Become your own healer and cultivate your inner wisdom?

  • Free yourself from shame and unleash your self-expression?

  • Deepen your relationship with yourself and others?

  • Expand your orgasmic potential?

  • Experience more connected sex?

  • Be a better lover?

  • Cultivate more peace, joy, balance, and bliss?

  • Communicate with compassion?

  • Heal trauma and sexual dysfunction including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and anorgasmia?

  • Learn authentic ancient lineage-based Tibetan Tantric teachings under the blessing of a Tibetan Buddhist Lama?

  • Partner with an experienced practitioner who will design your work together around your personal goals?

  • Explore all this in an inclusive environment accepting all bodies, colors, genders, sexual orientations, and abilities?


  • The Tibetan 5 Elements Meditations 

  • The Power Wind Exercises for Tantrikas

  • Pelvic Floor Exercises

  • Yoni Yoga with Yoni Balls

  • The 5 Core Pelvic Movements

  • The 5 Elements of Erotic Expression

  • Ocean Breath (Tantric Breathing)

  • Sexual Anatomy

  • Over 15 Different Types of Orgasms

  • Sexual Reflexology

  • Creating Sacred Space

  • The Pleasure Scale

  • Orgasmic Awareness Practice (OAP)

  • Polyvagal Theory

  • Pleasure Journal

  • Sexual Self Awareness Practice

  • Tantric Speech

  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

  • The 5 Principles of Sexual Communication

  • Somatic Sexual Healing

  • Solo Tantric Massage

  • Partnered Tantric Massage

  • Tantric Union Breathing

  • Conscious Sensual Awareness Practice

  • Semen Retention

  • Healing Sexual Trauma