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I am a Certified and Licensed

Authentic Tantra® Practitioner

and ACS Sexologist. 

 

(Certified by the Institute of Authentic Tantra Education

and the American College of Sexologists International

in 2021)

 
Authentic Tantra® is a trauma-informed holistic healing modality designed to awaken, heal and integrate body, mind, spirit, and sex. The methods are rooted in the Tibetan Five Elements as taught in the Shangpa Kagyu Lineage of Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, and are designed to catalyze profound healing and transformation in every area of life! These teachings have been passed down from teacher to student as part of an oral tradition dating back over 1,200 years, and were transmitted to our Lama (Lama Tashi Dundrup) by Kalu Rinpoche (1905 – May 10, 1989) over 40 years ago. In addition to being lineage-based, the Institute of Authentic Tantra Education is also the first and only government accredited professional training institute for tantra!
Marlee teaches Tantra to individuals and partnerships
in person in Rochester, NY and virtually over Zoom. 
Marlee does not perform any Tantric bodywork.
If you are interested in working with Marlee, 
please email her at marlee.dater@gmail.com
 
Marlee is booked with private clients and is
not taking new inquiries at this time.

DO YOU HAVE A DESIRE TO...​

  • Explore your sexuality and pleasure as a sacred and spiritual practice?

  • Become your own healer and cultivate your inner wisdom?

  • Free yourself from shame and unleash your self-expression?

  • Deepen your relationship with yourself and others?

  • Expand your orgasmic potential?

  • Experience more connected sex?

  • Be a better lover?

  • Cultivate more peace, joy, balance, and bliss?

  • Communicate with compassion?

  • Heal trauma and sexual dysfunction including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus, and anorgasmia?

  • Learn authentic ancient lineage-based Tibetan Tantric teachings under the blessing of a Tibetan Buddhist Lama?

  • Partner with an experienced practitioner who will design your work together around your personal goals?

  • Explore all this in an inclusive environment accepting all bodies, colors, genders, sexual orientations, and abilities?

WORK WITH ME TO LEARN...

  • The Tibetan 5 Elements Meditations 

  • The Power Wind Exercises for Tantrikas

  • Pelvic Floor Exercises

  • Yoni Yoga with Yoni Balls

  • The 5 Core Pelvic Movements

  • The 5 Elements of Erotic Expression

  • Ocean Breath (Tantric Breathing)

  • Sexual Anatomy

  • Over 15 Different Types of Orgasms

  • Sexual Reflexology

  • Creating Sacred Space

  • The Pleasure Scale

  • Orgasmic Awareness Practice (OAP)

  • Polyvagal Theory

  • Pleasure Journal

  • Sexual Self Awareness Practice

  • Tantric Speech

  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

  • The 5 Principles of Sexual Communication

  • Somatic Sexual Healing

  • Solo Tantric Massage

  • Partnered Tantric Massage

  • Tantric Union Breathing

  • Conscious Sensual Awareness Practice

  • Semen Retention

  • Healing Sexual Trauma

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No Classes Summer 2022

Marlee's personal experience with Authentic Tantra®.

TESTIMONIALS

"Being somewhat new to this, I was a bit nervous and didn't know what to expect. Marlee was lovely - her warmth, humour and enthusiasm soon put me at ease. Her deep knowledge and reverence for the work really came through in our session. It is difficult to explain in words, but during our session she gently guided me in the practice and breathwork to a place within myself, to a state that I never knew existed. I could literally feel myself relaxing, expanding outward and feeling inward all at the same time. She really knows her stuff! And she is such a good teacher that I left the session with the confidence and tools to repeat the experience for myself. It was so amazing and I can't wait for our next session. I look forward to working with Marlee for a long time to come and cannot recommend her offering highly enough for anyone looking for real, authentic healing and instruction."

-John R.

“Working with Marlee was a surprising experience! Prior to going into the session I was a little skeptical, but after being exposed to a variety of techniques I have seen the benefits of the tools she provided me. The technique that I loved the most was the Tantric Union Breathing, which allowed me to feel more connected to my partner, more grounded in my body, and more connected to my breath and emotions. Marlee made sure our environment felt safe, and on top of that her patience, vitality, and spark also contributed immensely to make the experience enjoyable, useful, applicable to everyday life—and most importantly—freeing! Thank you, Marlee!"

-Edoardo B.

“Marlee provided guidance throughout the session with a grounded energy. This enabled me to relax enough to process the work with trust. She held space for my partner and I incredibly effectively, and approached the session with an inspiring element of joy. It was a balanced and nurturing experience!”

-Ari G. 

“I’m finding these practices relaxing. Everything is flowing. This is really helping me find my true north and I’m soo grateful. Thank you so much for this healing. ❤️‍🩹”

-Ryan P.

"I had the fortunate opportunity to work with Marlee in her Tantra certification process and I feel so grateful that I did. I had heard of Tantra, but like many people, had a narrow and uninformed view of what it entailed. Marlee patiently and lovingly took me through the various aspects of Tantra and was so supportive in my integration of it into my daily life. She was present and patient in each session that we had, and just held space so graciously. I am so grateful to have had the chance to work with her, and I hope to continue working with her--and just knowing her--for many years to come. I highly recommend allowing her to hold space for you, as she’s a wonderful steward of it."

-K.R.

"I could feel warmth and tingling everywhere you said you were sending reiki. My whole physical body relaxed and I felt myself floating above my body. This was better than a full body massage!! You're the best!"

-Iris S. (received a VIRTUAL 60 minute Reiki & Tibetan 5 Elements Full Body Healing Session)